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To My Mother-in-Law, Thank You

Rachel Abene
2 min readJun 13, 2023

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for giving me a second shot at life.

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When my husband and I met, I regarded his mother with suspicion.

Their relationship confused me. I vacillated between feeling like the other woman and desperately seeking her approval. And deep down, I assumed she’d find a way to hurt me just like my mom did.

But from the beginning, she let me in. She loved me as her own.

Now almost 4 years later, I doubt she realizes the impact she’s had on my life. So, to my mother-in-law, this one’s for you.

Thank You for Being the Mom I Deserved

You’ve been my greatest cheerleader, confidant, and role model. You challenge me to do my best, to chase after what I want, and you mercilessly call me out when I sell myself short. Your unconditional love gives me the confidence I need to do just about anything.

I didn’t have that kind of support growing up, and I came to believe I’d never find it let alone be deserving of it. And I certainly didn’t understand the power of having someone in your corner no matter what. It’s life-changing, so thank you.

Thank You for Raising a Kind Man

When I met your son, I was about as emotionally mature as a sweet potato. Yet he never gave up…

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Rachel Abene
Rachel Abene

Written by Rachel Abene

Hi, I’m Rachel. I’m passionate about beauty, personal finance, and how the two often intermingle.

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